Monogamous cats: how a cat chooses its person

When a kitten appears in the house, it is always a joy for all family members and the beginning of a new life for the animal. In the first months, the cat shows its preferences: chooses a favorite place in the apartment, a favorite toy and a loved one. And sometimes it is very difficult to understand by what criteria this choice is made.

How a cat chooses a pet in the house

There is an opinion that cats do not tend to become too attached to people, that they are independent and “walk on their own”, but this is not so. Sooner or later, the fluffy beauty will identify her loved one and begin to show more attention to him: ask for her arms, follow him with her tail, try to keep her in sight. The choice usually falls not on the family member who feeds the cat and cleans her tray, but on the person who takes more part in her life. Playing with a pet, talking and other joint activities bring together and create a strong emotional bond between the cat and its owner. 

Signs of affection in cats

To understand which of the household the cat loves the most, it is enough to observe the behavior. A pet shows its affection in several ways:

• follows his man on the heels, tries to spend as much time with him as possible;
• adjusts to the owner’s mode – goes to bed and gets up with him;
• caresses and tramples on a loved one;
• allows you to carry out unpleasant procedures, such as bathing and cutting nails;
• yearns during the absence of this person and so on.

At the same time, even if the cat’s favorite leaves for a long time, she will not forget him and will show joy at the meeting.

How to earn the love of a cat

If, after the appearance of a cat in the house, it becomes noticeable that the pet does not show warm feelings for you, you can try to earn her love. To do this, you need to follow some rules:

• do not impose and give the pet time to get to know each other;
• pay attention to the cat, communicate, talk with her, play;
• do not pick up an animal against its will;
• serve your favorite treats
• show care and patience.

It is important that the fluffy pet feel calm and safe in the company of home. This will help create warm and harmonious relationships within the family. 

See also:

• What is a cat willing to do to get your attention?
• How to understand the language of cats and talk with your pet
• Can a cat understand human speech?